I'm going to save that track to listen to later - it's strange how there are so, so many similarities. I didn't live a life before starting out. It does raise the question, is there really something out there? I don't know, but I think I'm going to start looking, just in case.

England is a bit of a poopsie-hovel right now, and this is being led from the top down; not just the opportunistic and cynical politicians, but also by those with palpably privileged careers, mostly garnered through a social network of connectivity and mutual acquaintanceships. The BBC lost me as a…

My AMAB gender social standing is absolute dross; I was bullied and chivvied into being forced into being something I never was. Racial social standing? Well, if you're White, judged to be viscerally unattractive and denied affection, intimacy and a sense of connection; well, anyone who has paid a fraction…

I am indelibly and immutably demarcated as persona sexualis non-grata; I have always been this way and I think it is because I was sensed as 'different'. …

People's success (or otherwise), in the dating pirhanna pool is pretty much decided before the age of 7, long before dating even becomes a thing. It is engrained and taught self-negativity and self-denigration from a toxic family environment. Early habits are impossible to kill. Dating failures and duds were made…

This whole dating milieu seems toxic and repellent. I never dated in my life and now, I'm way past eligibility to do so. I seem to remember thinking of it as transactional, contrived and conformant to an overarching, dominant meta-narrative. …

I am not surprised that levels of deceit and disinformation would be used in order to push a message that is designed to get the hindmost low-grade types behind attacking trans people. What I find amusing though, is that if they're able to mobilise the Gormless Hordes against us, then…

I never used any of these 'dating' Apps; I never tried to use existing social media (Twitter, Facebook), for dating purposes, either. I think people who report 'success' in using these Apps would probably have been successful IRL. There's a certain personality that received nurturance and growth between birth and…

The problems seems to be the men who do not realise or refuse to see that they are undesireable duds that nobody wants to be with. Not everyone with the dawning realisation that they're a dud even gets to go on a date, let alone be in a position to…